From Code to Court

The past weekend was a true blessing. I had the privilege of attending a community tennis coaching course on the Gold Coast and met some amazing ladies with super doper gal pal energy.

Upon settling into my seat and Coach Emily Burns ’ introduction to the course, something magical occurred. I instantly felt relaxed and at ease, realizing I was in a safe, welcoming, and friendly space. Over the next two days, I forged friendships with remarkable women who I would never have encountered in my daily routine. Learning in an environment where everyone contributed collaboratively without the need for prompting was refreshing. It was a level of happiness I hadn’t experienced in quite some time.

There’s something magical and metaphysical when a group of ladies from different cultural background and different walks of life coming together supporting each other when their paths crossed. It was such a healing experience for me after I have been in the highly competitive throat-cutting tech industry for years. I was so very touched by the celebration of womenhood, connectedness and gal-palwer.

Together, these ladies have shown me that we bring out each other’s best in a positive reinforcing, encouraging and supportive environment. And that’s exactly how we would want to train and develop tennis players:

1. Motivation Over Fear: Choosing inspiration and passion as driving forces, rather than instilling fear.

2. Encouragement Over Punishment: Fostering growth through positive reinforcement and support rather than punitive measures.

3. Flexibility Over Rigidity: Embracing adaptability and openness, recognizing the importance of flexibility over strict rigidity.

4. Long-term Goal Over Short-term Gain: Prioritizing enduring success and development over immediate, short-lived victories.

The memories of those two days will forever hold a special place in my heart. Thank you all for showing me the environment where one can just flourish and be.